If you’ve got a cold sore or genital herpes flare‑up, the first thing you want is relief that actually works. The good news is there are several treatments backed by research, not just rumors you find on forums.
The gold standard for herpes is a prescription antiviral. Drugs like acyclovir, valacyclovir (Valtrex) and famciclovir stop the virus from multiplying. Studies show they cut outbreak length by 50‑70% when you start them at the first sign of tingling or itching.
Take valacyclovir within 24 hours of a flare, and most people see sores heal in two to three days instead of a week. The dose is usually one pill twice daily for five days, but your doctor may adjust it based on how often you break out.
If you have frequent outbreaks (more than four a year), doctors often prescribe suppressive therapy—one pill every day. That can reduce the chance of an outbreak by up to 80% and even lower the risk of passing the virus to a partner.
Not everyone wants to stay on prescription meds forever, so there are evidence‑based OTC choices. Lemon balm cream (Melissa officinalis) has antiviral compounds that speed up healing when applied several times a day. A small study found it reduced sore size by half compared with a plain moisturizer.
Lysine supplements are another popular option. Research shows a daily dose of 1,000 mg can lower the frequency of cold sores for some people, though results vary. It’s safest to take lysine on an empty stomach and avoid high‑dose arginine foods (like chocolate or nuts) that may fuel the virus.
Good hygiene also matters. Wash your hands often, avoid touching sores, and don’t share towels or lip balm during an outbreak. Keeping stress low and getting enough sleep supports your immune system, which in turn helps keep the virus quiet.
Finally, talk to a pharmacist about over‑the‑counter antiviral creams that contain docosanol (Abreva). They’re not as strong as prescription pills, but they can shave off a day or two of healing if you apply them at the first sign of a sore.
Bottom line: The most reliable way to manage herpes is a prescription antiviral taken early, combined with smart lifestyle habits. If prescriptions aren’t an option, lemon balm, lysine and docosanol are the next best backed‑by‑research choices.